Relationship Skills

I feel like this is always a work in progress, in the elementary schools.  Communicating properly, building relationships, resolving conflicts, seeking help and helping when needed are constantly being addressed.  I think teachers, counselors and admins are always modeling these behaviors, doing small group scenarios, and stopping to address these issues during teachable moments.  

What I do is introduce the idea of Relationship Skills: The ability to build positive relationships, especially with diverse individuals and groups.  This includes active listening and communication, and conflict resolution skills.  Asking and offering help are also hallmarks of relationship skills.  I encourage relationship skills in my classroom through lab work.  We talk about how we are all scientists in the classroom who value communicating with others, including listening actively, and that when we hit a speed bump, it's time to practice conflict resolution.  This includes identifying the issue, sharing our thoughts, identifying if we share the same ideas, offering solutions, and then agreeing to a plan.  Believe me, this is not easy at the 7th grade level, but I keep encouraging this practice.

Building relationships is a key component in my Social skills classes. Students need to communicate effectively and learn how to deal with conflicts in constructive ways. 

With my younger students I address this is 2 ways.  First, we use social stories to learn ways to have a meaningful conversation.  This includes describing what a conversation is and what it entails. We discuss appropriate ways to greet people and explain there may be different greetings for our friends vs. teachers and adults. Starting conversations, questions to ask and comments to make are talked about. We discuss things that may be interesting to talk about, how to maintain the topic and how to add new information. Secondly, we learn about the Social Detective and discuss things that "We say" and things that "We keep in our head". When conflicts arise, we use our detective skills to find ways to handle the situation and hopefully avoid it in the future. 

Relationship skills are all about getting along well with others, working together, and solving problems collaboratively. This includes listening, sharing your thoughts, and showing respect. These skills help students build trust and work better as a team. In my classroom, I use group projects to help students build their relationship skills. During these projects, students must work together by sharing ideas, dividing tasks, and finding solutions as a team. This setup encourages them to practice important skills like active listening, respectful communication, giving and receiving feedback, and supporting one another. It also helps them learn how to handle disagreements positively and appreciate different perspectives, which are all key parts of building strong, healthy relationships.

One aspect that stood out to me in relationship skills is relationship building. I usually start off my class by checking in with my students; how classes are going, anything exciting happening outside of school, extracurricular activities, etc. I also try to incorporate their interests into classroom activities and discussions. Not only am I building relationships this way but also fostering engagement.

Having good relationship skills is important in many areas of life. These skills include the ability to communicate effectively, listen actively, stand up for yourself, and build trust and respect in your relationships. The ability to solve problems and work through conflicts with others is also an important aspect of strong relationship skills. In my classroom, I promote these skills through group work (which we can use more often now due to block scheduling). I assign students to random groups to work on math problems together, which also helps my 7th-grade students who may not know many of their classmates, as they might have come from different elementary schools. This allows them to build relationships with students they may not know yet.

Relationship skills is the importance of teaching students to communicate effectively, manage conflicts, and work collaboratively with others.  These skills are essential for building positive connections, resolving disagreements, and creating a supportive and respectful classroom environment.

Encouraging peer mediation would be an excellent way to encourage relationship skills.  Teaching students to resolve their own conflicts helps them develop the skills to manage their own emotions and communication skills.

Relationship skills are the ability to form positive and healthy relationships with those around you. 

This is one I can probably do more with in my classroom. In the future I'd like to build this in more by giving students social situations and asking them what characters did or what they would or could do different.

Relationship skills are how we engage with others.  It is how we communicate effectively and build positive and healthy relationships.  I think it is important to model these skills in the classroom.  If I show my students how to communicate effectively with others they will learn to do the same.  I believe in building strong positive relationships with my students to be able to connect with them in our learning environment.  Within the classroom, we build those positive relationships when working on classwork with each other daily.