Like Dr. Greene said its better to find out what is causing the problem then solve the problem. If we talk to the children about what happened and how it made them feel and hearing them out. Listening to how that specific child felt before and during the moment can help you better understand what the child is going through. Also even just removing the child from that environment, as easy as changing to a different room. Giving a neutral environment can take a lot of the stress and frustration off the child. Talking to the child and asking what could be done differently and keeping the solution in their hands.
