"Focus on the problems that cause the behaviors...focus on solving those problems rather than modifying the behaviors...solve those problems collabritivly."
I think that this is really great instead of telling a kid that their behavior is bad, ask them what makes them act that way and see if together you can create a plan for what we can do to help their problem and how they can react to it.
I think that this is really great instead of telling a kid that their behavior is bad, ask them what makes them act that way and see if together you can create a plan for what we can do to help their problem and how they can react to it.