Public
Specific, unconditional
"Great job today class, I really like how you all got right to work and kept your focus. See you tomorrow"
Private
"Great job today class, I really like how you all got right to work and kept your focus. See you tomorrow"
Private
Specific, unconditional
"Amazing job Johnny, you were a great motivator when you saw Sue needed help. I really appreciate you going over to explain the assignment to her. Have a wonderful night.
With each type of praise the person that is doing the praising needs to be specific about what it is they are happy about. There also needs to be no conditions left at the end like, I'm happy now but if you don't continue this behavior I will not be happy tomorrow. This takes away from the great behavior of that moment.
"Amazing job Johnny, you were a great motivator when you saw Sue needed help. I really appreciate you going over to explain the assignment to her. Have a wonderful night.
With each type of praise the person that is doing the praising needs to be specific about what it is they are happy about. There also needs to be no conditions left at the end like, I'm happy now but if you don't continue this behavior I will not be happy tomorrow. This takes away from the great behavior of that moment.




