As a woman, I have experienced being privileged by having a steady home life and raised to value school for life skills but also marginalized a lot. I have not been given opportunities to go into sports like my brothers or experience anything outside the bounds of femininity from my parents. As an overweight female I was not asked to be involved in sports or girlie dances or special activities because I wasn't pretty white - girl enough or had money. in college the "In" girls or groups did not invite me in and then into my teacher career I seemed to not fit in with the "All that" group or get recognition from the popular ass- kissing teachers, no matter how helpful I thought I was being. But I remember always being told by social programs in school, college and "ice breaker" activities at school that you have your won gift to offer the students, kids and families. So took this notion that I was worthy and went with it. I did have the privilege to be in positive environments that encouraged me to eventually stand up for myself. So, I thank God that he put important people in my life to encourage me along so that I know my worth and will not let anyone determine that for me. This understanding of my worth is a big part of what I share with the students today. Every day and to every student in my room I will say that they are valued, unique and have something only they can offer to the world. With this exchange, I feel I offer a safe, respectful and equitable classroom in the best ways I can and continue to look for ways to help the students know how amazing they can be and what unlimited potential they have to offer their community now and in the future.
