I thought
“do your own work” was very good advice. Sometimes moms in Facebook groups pose
questions to the group that have such simple, straight-forward answers that
make it clear they haven’t even remotely tried to find the answer for
themselves before asking the group. Its irritating, and even if I know the
answer, I’m not inclined to reply. Similarly, asking the victims of racism for
resources every time an issue arises can be exhausting for them. The simplest
of google searches can lead you to great information, so take ownership over
your own learning.
