How true is this part?? Our job as educators may be defined by subject matter, or grade, but in reality it is just an avenue for us to do our real work, work is caring for, guiding and advising young people. (page 37) I work with K-2 teaching AIS Reading. I absolutely love teaching them to read, but I love just being there for them, giving a hug when needed and just present for them.
As a parent I very much related to the "placed on hold" scenarios that were described. Sometimes, as parents we are not seen as valuable or trusted, at certain times in young people's lives. That is ok, as long as we continue to remain involved and allow and encourage them access to those they do trust. I loved reading about the young man who had gotten suspended and the author was going to skip the drum lessons for week. The drum teacher iJared) inquired and requested more time with the boy instead. In the end, Jared become the boy's trusted adult. Jared had been in similar situations, provided advice (same as the parents), and was received well by the boy. "Adults like Jared, who know that drums are the avenue, not the destination."